PSY-OPS

Is your past the problem? Many therapists insist that patients “meditate” on all that is bad or wrong in their lives – we must find the “root” of our problems. Is this true? What does the Bible say?

Many of us operate under the illusion that we are supposed to be “happy” and “fulfilled.” Does your Bible say that? Mine says I can have joy and peace. But, it doesn’t promise “happiness.”

Psychology is one of the most destructive forces to permeate our churches in the past 200 years. It promotes narcissism, a false goal of “happiness,” and emphasizes focusing upon one’s past rather…

I can’t forgive someone and I can’t stop thinking about it. I have tried and tried but I can’t stop thinking about the hurts. Any suggestions?

You presented Jay Adams’ and John MacArthur’s views on forgiveness very well. But, Adams’ says to forgive only those who repent. Shouldn’t we forgive everyone – not just those who repent?

My spouse died 1 year ago. I’m still terribly depressed, lonely and afraid. My church tells me I need to move on with my life. But how do I do that after 30 years of marriage? Any advice?

I lost my job about a year ago and I can’t find work. I’ve come to realize that my whole identity – who I am – has always been my work. I’m so depressed I can hardly go on. Any suggestions for me?

Q. My work environment is awful. Several people are having affairs and I feel like I’m caught in the middle. I don’t feel there is any room for advancement. Yet, I can’t really go elsewhere due to the poor economy. Do you have any suggestions for Christians who find themselves in situations like these?

I keep feeling guilty for things that happened in my past over and over again. Even worse, my unbelieving family won’t let me forget and still treat me like a bad person. Any thoughts on this?

I know we aren’t supposed to be fearful. But, I keep worrying about my kid’s safety, worry about going broke, and worry about terrorist attacks, etc. I know this is wrong. So what can I do?